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Swinging 101

It is a proven fact that a swinger doesn't have a certain look. You probably work with one, or ride the elliptical next to one at the gym. You never know who could be a swinger because the lifestyle doesn't have any one demographic. They are found in all types of households and can be all types of people. There are lots of ways to be discreet. Before the internet offered them lots of websites to mingle on, they could meet through advertisements in magazines, or through key parties that were only talked about if a person seemed like they would be interested.

It is still as difficult now that the internet lets the people be incognito to find the swingers in your neighborhood, but rest assured if you seek them out, you will find them. Before the internet swingers would send letters and pictures between one another before they met up to make it happen. While there were some clubs, if you didn't live close to one then you had to do the long distance thing. Swinging seems to be a little bit more mainstream these days because the quality of the sites and the events are improving. It seems people are more into trying new things than they used to be. It doesn't matter if you and your partner are a little curious or looking to go into a huge orgy with your pants down, you will find plenty of people who want both. If you are trying to find someone close and willing to meet up then the internet can be your best friend.

While there is no guessing how many swingers are actually in your neighborhood, you would be surprised if you took an anonymous survey. There are lots of women who are into swinging simply because they want to experiment with another woman, and in turn the husbands want to see that. These couples are better off looking for a threesome instead of swapping because they might not like it as much. There are lots of women who also want to have two men at once, so there are a lot of options when it comes to swinging and how far you are willing to go.

Swinging doesn't end with the internet there are tons of resorts and even swinging conventions that let people bring their true selves out to play. If you think you might be interested in swinging there are a lot of resources for you. The internet can open up a whole new world to you and your partner, or you can just go to a party and see how you feel. The lifestyle is about expression, and no one is going to pressure you into swinging if you aren’t comfortable. Talk to your partner and if you truly want to try out the lifestyle, then there is no better time than now. You never know who you might meet, or what might happen until you put yourself out there. Just know if you are talking about starting to swing, your neighbors could be having the same conversation. Why don’t you invite yourself over for a cup of sugar? It could be the beginning of a beautiful relationship.